SEPTEMBER 2005

SEPTEMBER 2005 continues with THE SECRET OF THE MYSTERY DOCTRINE lessons from our Philippians series as well as other subjects in order by date, (0190) 1353 -1363 with notes and links attached below.
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WHAT IT MEANS TO BE INITIATED INTO THE SECRET OF THE MYSTERY, PART 86. THE MYSTERY OF RELATIONSHIPS, PART 2



Robert McLaughlin Bible Ministries

What it means to be initiated into the secret of the mystery. Part 86. The mystery of relationships.

Thursday, September 1, 2005

EPH 6:10-11 From now on, start becoming strong by means of the Lord, and in the strength of His might. Pick up and put on the full armor from God, that you may be able to hold your ground against the schemes or the strategies of the devil.

EPH 6:12-13 Because our struggle is not against blood [people’s souls] and flesh [their old sin nature], but against the rulers [these are the archons like Abaddon and Beelzebub], against the powers [demon officers who have phenomenal authority], against the world forces of this darkness - [kosmokratoras - demons who specialize in possessing or influencing the cosmos or world rulers] against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places or against the spiritual forces of evil in the atmosphere around the earth, the stellar universe and in the presence of God.

EPH 6:14-15 Because of this, pick up and put on the full armor from God, that you may be able to hold your ground in the day when evil attacks you, even after you have achieved or accomplished everything, hold your ground. Because of this, hold your ground, [after you] have buckled on your combat gear around your waist by means of doctrine, and [after you] have put on the breastplate of righteousness, [hold your ground] after you have put on your combat boots on your feet with readiness, preparation, or the equipment of the gospel of peace.

EPH 6:16-18 in addition to all, taking up the shield of faith with which you will be able to extinguish all the flaming missiles of the evil one. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. With all prayer and petition pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be on the alert with all perseverance and petition for all the saints,

EPH 6:19-20 and pray on my behalf, that utterance may be given to me in the opening of my mouth, to make known with boldness the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains; that in proclaiming it I may speak boldly, as I ought to speak.

One of the most insecure experiences a child can have is for them to misbehave and not be disciplined.

The Living Bible - “If you refuse to discipline your son it proves that you don’t love him.”

PRO 15:17 Better a bread crust shared in love than a slab of prime rib served in hate.
The Living Bible - “It’s better to eat soup with someone you love than steak with someone you hate.”
It’s better to have a bowl of tomato soup with your family and be filled with love than to serve steak at every meal and be filled with strife.

PRO 22:6 Point your kids in the right direction - when they’re old they won’t be lost.
Train up - Qal imperative - chanak = to initiate or to discipline or to dedicate.
Chanak = developing thirst and training to submit; it has the connotation of discipline and dedication.

According to the Bible the word “child” may be translated from the age of infancy to adolescence.

1SA 1:22 - an infant.
Gen 21 - Ishmael before he was a teenager.
Gen 37 - Joseph when he was 17.
Gen 34 - a child of marriageable age.

Train up = to create a thirst, to discipline a child, in the way he should go.

“In keeping with”
“In cooperation with”
“In accordance with”
“According to his way.”

Solomon is not saying to train up a child according to your way or what you want him to be.
He is saying if you want your training to be meaningful and wise observe your child and discover “his way.”

“Way” - derek

PRO 30:18-19 - derek does not always mean a pathway or a road. It means a characteristic,
PRO 22:6, according to his characteristic, his manner.

PRO 30:18:19 - in each case the word “way” is not a road or a path - it is a characteristic.
PRO 22:6 Train up a child in keeping with his characteristics.

Children are not a piece of clay to be molded into what we want them to be.

Just look at the different characters in every family.

Know your child’s weakness and his strength, God does!

Cain - Abel Jacob - Esau Absalom - Solomon

PRO 22:15 Young people are prone to foolishness and fads; the cure comes through tough-minded discipline.

Bound - qashar - to be confined and compacted.

Foolishness in the O.T. always has to do with one who despises discipline and authority.

A fool was one who hated instruction, one who mocked at guilt.From their early age foolishness is confined and compacted in the hearts of our children.

PRO 23:13 Don’t be afraid to correct your young ones; a spanking won’t kill them.
PRO 23:14 A good spanking, in fact, might save them from something worse than death.


WHAT IT MEANS TO BE INITIATED INTO THE SECRET OF THE MYSTERY, PART 87. THE MYSTERY OF RELATIONSHIPS, PART 3. JOH 15:9-18; EPH 4:31; 5:25; HEB 12:15; LAM 3:14-15; ACT 8:23; EXO 15:22-25; PSA 64


Robert McLaughlin Bible Ministries

What it means to be initiated into the secret of the mystery. Part 87. The mystery of relationships, Part 3.

Sunday, September 4, 2005


1. Our relationship with Him or abiding in Him, verses 1-11.
2. Our relationships with one another, verses 12-17.
3. Our relationship with the world or the cosmic system, verses 18-27.

The apostle Paul is one of the greatest experts on relationships in all of human history.

EPH 5:25 husbands, love your wives as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for it

Impersonal love was when Christ gave Himself for it on the cross.

The Lord loved with both personal and impersonal love, and yet when He commands husbands to love their wives He uses impersonal love.

The greatest failure is impersonal unconditional love, because out of impersonal love comes true personal love.

According to the Word of God, bitterness is a very serious thing.
Bitterness and jealousy often go together.

When you allow bitterness to cause you to explode, either inwardly or overtly, you hurt your own life = self-induced misery.

Every believer who harbors bitterness or jealousy is a walking time bomb waiting to explode.

Once a believer uses his own volition to allow bitterness, anger, or jealousy to control him, he shatters his own life.

Bitterness - pikria
This noun refers to animosity, jealousy, hostility, and it is actually a part of anger and harshness.

Bitterness is an expression of misery and disappointment in a person’s life.
Bitterness is severity of temper, biting sarcasm, a painful inward affliction, a deep distress of mind.

Marah = angry discontentment or angry frustration.

DEU 32:24 They shall be wasted by famine, and consumed by plague and bitter destruction;

The Jews ridiculed the message that Jeremiah was given. Why? Because they were bitter! They even made up songs about Jeremiah and his message and they said about Jeremiah, “He has filled our lives with bitterness.”

The Twentieth Century Translation - “for I see that you have fallen into the bitterness of envy.”
The Phillips translation - “you are a man bitter with jealousy.”

People were leaving him and going to hear the apostles.

Being rejected is a strong reason for bitterness in the lives of most believers especially in marriage, COL 3:19.

Degeneracy is a source of bitterness, ROM 3:14.

PRO 14:10 The heart knows its own bitterness, And a stranger does not share its joy.

Grace Bible ChurchPastor Robert R. McLaughlinSunday September 4, 2005

“filled” = present middle imperative of pleroo

1. Fill up a deficiency: without the F/HS we have no ability to learn or apply BD or to resist the influence of Satan (COL 1:24; 1Jn 4:4).
2. Be fully possessed: When filled the believer’s soul is completely controlled by God the HS (1CO 6:19-20).

3. Be fully influenced: When filled God the Holy Spirit will influence every facet of your life.
4. Be filled with a certain quality: The quality produced by God the Holy Spirit when He controls the believers soul is the characteristics of spiritual maturity (EPH 3:19; 4:10; PHI 1:11; 1Jn 1:4; REV 3:2).

The present tense with the imperative mood means that this is a command that we must adhere to habitually.
The middle voice: the middle calls special attention to the subject. The subject is acting in relation to itself somehow. (A.T. Robertson).
The middle voice is that use of the verb which describes the subject as participating in the results of the action. (Dana and Mantey)

“examine” is the present active imperative of dokimazo = to test, to prove, to try, to examine.

Classical use of this word was in the testing of the purity of metals and coins. This word means to examine or test if something is pure or if it isn’t.

JOH 13:10 Jesus said to him, "He who has bathed needs only to wash his feet, but is completely clean; and you are clean, but not all of you."
JOH 15:3 You are already clean because of the word which I have spoken to you.

Our Lord washed the feet of the disciples before they partook of the communion celebration. (MAT 26:26-29;MAR 14:22-25; LUK 22:19-20)

JOH 13:8 Peter said to Him, "Never shall You wash my feet!" Jesus answered him, "If I do not wash you, you have no part with Me." and so [kai houtos thus or after that]. Examine yourself (wash your feet) and after that eat of the bread and drink of the cup.

Examining yourself is washing your feet. Having clean feet is synonymous with being filled with the Spirit. Being filled with the Spirit is synonymous with living in the PPOG. Living in the PPOG is synonymous with abiding in the Vine and having fellowship with God the Father and Jesus Christ.

MAT 7:15-16 "Beware of the false prophets, who come to you in sh eep's clothing, but inwardly are ravenous wolves. You will know them by their fruits.

Now, in context, what is being discussed here; it is the fellowship of believers with God the Father and with Jesus Christ and with one another.

When we sin, we have to be cleaned from the effects of sin, which is loss of fellowship with God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

The word if introduces a third class condition. Fulfillment of the condition depends on your volition: maybe you will rebound and maybe you will not.
We confess = 1st person plural present active subjunctive of homologeo: to name, cite, admit, acknowledge, confess a crime in court, to make a legal statement.

The present tense means that you have to do this every time you sin.
The active voice means that you have to make the decision to rebound, no one can do this for you.
The subjunctive mood means that maybe you will rebound and maybe you wont.

“our sins” = tas harmartias hemon: the sins of ours (in the plural)
to forgive = 3rd person singular aorist active subjunctive of aphiemi.
Aphiemi is used in a variety of ways and has meanings: to let go, leave, to disregard, leave behind, dismiss, divorce, cancel, pardon, remit, forgive, abandon.

The instant we acknowledge our known sins to God He cancels the sins and the initial repercussion of loss of fellowship.

Cleanse is the Greek verb katharizo which means to cleanse, to remove for the purpose of purifying, hence, to purify, and it applies to all sins.
Known sins are usually accompanied by unknown sins. When we acknowledge the known sins to God, He forgives and purifies us from all unrighteousness, including unknown and forgotten sins.

2 Pe 1:21 for no prophecy was ever made by an act of human will, but men moved by the Holy Spirit spoke from God.


WHAT IT MEANS TO BE INITIATED INTO THE SECRET OF THE MYSTERY, PART 88. THE MYSTERY OF RELATIONSHIPS, PART 4. PHI 3:13-15, EPH 4:31, GEN 3:16, HEB 12:15, ACT 7:9, GEN 30:1, ROM 13:13



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What it means to be initiated into the secret of the mystery. Part 88. The mystery of relationships. Part 4.

Sunday, September 11, 2005


1. Our relationship with Him or abiding in Him, verses 1-11.
2. Our relationships with one another, verses 12-17.
3. Our relationship with the world or the cosmic system, verses 18-27.

You cannot undo past failures, PHI 3:13-15.

This describes an experience that everyone has in relationships sooner or later.

When a believer harbors bitterness and that bitterness continues, the believer has a tragic flaw.

No one who is bitter should ever get involved in relationships while in a state of bitterness.

Relationship with God must precede any relationship with people.

1. When you are born.
2. When you are born again.
3. When you enter into relationships.

EPH 4:31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and verbal brawling and quarreling and slander be removed from you along with all malice.

Malice refers to spitefulness and revenge motivation.

COL 3:19 - husbands are commanded to love their wives and be not bitter against them.

Bitterness, jealousy, and the emotional sins, especially the emotional sin of anger, are the great enemies of relationships.

Many men become bitter in relationships because they don’t know how to handle nagging, tantrums, pouting, and the most embarrassing of all - abnormal public behavior in those around them.

All men have souls with areas of sensitivity.

Men are much more sensitive than women because men are prone to pride and arrogance and therefore insecurity and hyper-sensitivity.

The woman has been designed to be under the authority of the man, and therefore she can often take a lot more.

When a woman truly loves a man she will guide and protect his soul and that includes the protection of his areas of sensitivity which she should know well.

A woman who loves her man and responds to him will have a soul-relationship that will protect him.

In her protection, the male aggressiveness, the male initiative, the male love toward her becomes a fantastic thing.

HEB 12:15 See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled;

When “rebellion and independence” link up with “sensitivity and bitterness,” there can only be self-induced misery in the relationship.

1. Jealousy
2. Bitterness
3. Anger

Symptoms include problems about trust, sex, money, and faithlessness.

The problem in relationships is lack of virtue, lack of power, lack of efficacy.

A lack of three problem solving devices that can solve problems with relationships:
1. Personal love for God the Father, without which as a believer you can never have true human love.
2. Occupation with the person of Jesus Christ which is the legitimate problem-solving device.
3. Impersonal love.

The issue is the present not the past.


WHAT IT MEANS TO BE INITIATED INTO THE SECRET OF THE MYSTERY, PART 89. THIS TREASURE IN "EARTHEN VESSELS" REVEALS THE SURPASSING GREATNESS OF THE POWER OF GOD. PART 1. REV 3:1-6, ROM 8:29-39, 1CO 12:13-26, 2CO 4:7, 1JO 1:9



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What it means to be initiated into the secret of the mystery. Part 89. This treasure in "earthen vessels" reveals the surpassing greatness of the power of God.

Sunday, September 18, 2005


REV 7:14 These are the ones who come out of the great tribulation, and they have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb.

He had a definite job to do and only three and one-half years in which to do it.

JOH 13:27 And after the morsel, Satan then entered into him. Jesus therefore said to him, “What you do, do quickly.”

I wonder why many believers impose this enslavement and routine upon themselves.

TLJC, on the other hand, did not have to stay busy, because He knew that God’s sons do not have to prove anything.

TLJC knew, and He teaches us to know, that our self-identity does not arise from what we do but from what we are - fully accepted and beloved children of God.

LUK 10:19-20 Behold, I have given you authority to tread upon serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall injure you. Nevertheless do not rejoice in this, that the spirits are subject to you, but rejoice that your names are recorded in heaven.”

MAR 1:11 and a voice came out of the heavens: “Thou art My beloved Son, in Thee I am well-pleased.”

He was pleasing to the Father merely because He was God’s beloved Son who had stayed with His commitment following the Lord without doing any great works at all.

PSA 18:19 He brought me forth also into a broad place; He rescued me, because He delighted in me.

COL 3:15 And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body; and be thankful.

Mclanchthon said, “Martin, this day we will discuss the governance of the universe.” To which Luther replied, “This day you and I will go fishing and leave governance of the universe to God.”

As old “Satchel” Paige used to say, when we work we can work hard, but when we sit, we can sit loose.

The good news is that God uplifts and accepts you and me.

HEB 13:7 Remember those who rule over you, who communicate the Word from God to you; carefully consider the issue of their way of life; imitate their doctrine.

HEB 13:17 Keep obeying those [pastors] who themselves are ruling over you, and submit to their authority, for they keep watch over your souls, as those who will render an account. Keep obeying them, in order that they may do this [accounting] with happiness and not with groaning, for this is unprofitable for you.

ISA 54:17 No weapon that is formed against you will prosper, and every tongue that rises against you in judgment you will condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and their vindication is from Me,” declares the Lord.

1PE 5:2 “Feed the flock of God among you, not from compulsion, but voluntarily according to the will of God.”

2TI 4:2 “Preach the Word. Be ready in season and out of season. Reprove, rebuke, exhort [when warranted by context], and do this with all patience and teaching.”

1TI 4:10 “For because of this [communication of doctrine], we work hard to the point of exhaustion, and we hang in there tough because we have confidence in the living God who is the Savior of all men.”

1JO 1:9 “If we acknowledge [name and cite] our sins, He is faithful and righteous, with the result that He forgives us our sins [known sins] and purifies us from all unrighteousness [unknown sins].”

The Bible teaches over 125 times in the New Testament that it is - ACT 16:31 “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you shall be saved,”

JOH 3:18 “He who believes in Him is not judged; he who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.”
JOH 3:36 “He who believes in the Son has eternal life; but he who does not obey the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God abides on him.”

1. Self-judgment.
1CO 11:30-31 For this reason many among you are weak [warning discipline] and sick [intensive discipline], and a number sleep [dying discipline]. But if we judge ourselves correctly, we should not be judged.

2. Lay aside every weight [sin caused by stress].
HEB 12:1 Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us.

3. Lift up the hands that hang down.
HEB 12:12 “Therefore, strengthen the hands that hang down and the knees that are feeble.”
The restoring of your strength is the filling of the Holy Spirit.

4. Be subject to the Father of your human spirits, ROM 8:16; 1CO 2:11-13 cf. HEB 12:9.
5. Make straight paths, MAT 3:3; HEB 12:13.
This relates rebound to using the other problem-solving devices.

6. Lay aside the old man, EPH 4:22.
7. “Arise from the dead,” EPH 5:14.
This is temporal death or control of the sin nature during your Christian life.

Some people labor all their lives, never knowing that they don’t have what it takes.


WHAT IT MEANS TO BE INITIATED INTO THE SECRET OF THE MYSTERY, PART 90. THIS TREASURE IN "EARTHEN VESSELS" REVEALS THE SURPASSING GREATNESS OF THE POWER OF GOD. PART 2. MAT 11:28-30, JAM 1:2-4; DEU 28:45-47; 2CO 4:7


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Wednesday, September 21, 2005


The importance of our relationship with one another, verses 12-17.

MAT 11:28-30 “Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you, and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you shall find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy, and My load is light.”

“There are two things to aim at in life, first to get what you want, second, to enjoy it. Only the wisest of mankind achieve the second.”

Contentment does not mean you are really enjoying the life that God has given you; it means that you are willing to accept it no matter what.
Ecc 12 - one of the four worst things that can happen to a person is to look back on their life and have regrets.

JAM 1:3-4 Knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance.
Let endurance have its perfect result, that you may be perfect and complete lacking in nothing.

If you are not finding happiness in the struggles of life, you will not find it at all.

ECC 11:7 - happiness is for TODAY - not tomorrow.

Human limitation is a fact of life, a hard truth that makes life easier when we accept it.

“We’re all ordinary people,” said G. K. Chesterton, “and it’s the extraordinary people who know it.”
Paul agreed. He said, “We have this treasure [our ministry] in jars of clay [our humanity] to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us.”

2CO 4:7 But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the surpassing greatness of the power may be of God and not from ourselves;
JOH 6:63 It is the Spirit who gives life; the flesh profits nothing; the words that I have spoken to you are spirit and are life.

This does not refer to marriage.

The Living Bible - “for the results can be much better.”

We gain what is called today in our technical world - input.

A winter’s day,
In a deep and dark December,
I’m all alone,
Gazing from my window,
At the streets below,
On a freshly fallen silent shroud of snow.
I am a rock, I am an island.

I have my walls,
A fortress deep and mighty,
That none may penetrate,
I have no need of friendship,
Friendship causes pain,
It’s laughter and it’s loving I disdain,
I am a rock, I am an island.

Don’t talk of love,
I’ve heard that word before,
It’s hiding in my memory,
And I won’t disturb its slumber,
Of feelings that I’ve died,
If I never lived,
I never would have cried,
I am a rock, I am an island,
And a rock feels no pain,
And an island never cries.

HEB 4:15 For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as we are, yet without sin.
JOH 11:35 Jesus wept.

“To man, friendship is indispensable and to that one who has no need and feels no need for it, he must be either much above the human nature or much below it.”

“Take a ladder,” was Constantine’s advice to such a one, “and climb up to heaven by thyself.”

1CO 1:12 Now I mean this, that each one of you is saying, “I am of Paul,” and “I of Apollos,” and “I of Cephas,” and “I of Christ.”

But our self-confidence is our stumbling block.

He wears down our noble determination through the frustrations of life and He squeezes out of us every piece of our self-confidence by disappointment and defeat.

When “can-do” can’t, He shows us that He can, and therefore we can.
(“I can’t” then becomes blasphemy.)

JOB 23:14 For He performs what is appointed for me, And many such decrees are with Him.
1TH 5:24 Faithful is He who calls you, and He also will bring it to pass.

The demands that have been placed on us are now demands on Him.

PHI 4:13 I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.

To persuade ourselves that we are something when we are nothing is terrible loss; to confess that we are nothing is to lay the foundation of being something.

He reminds us of TLJC, Emmanuel (“God with us”), who spent a seemingly inordinate amount of time eating, fishing, strolling by the sea, chatting, going to parties, being neighborly.

PRO 18:24 “A man that desires friends must show himself friendly.”

The other element in Paul’s work was impartation: “I have not hesitated to preach anything that would be helpful to you but have taught you publicly and from house to house,” verse 20.

Like Jonathan, who went to David at Horesh and “helped him find strength in God,” 1SA 23:16, a real friend is one who leaves another with a word that strengthens his grip on God.

“My word... will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it,” ISA 55:11.

The simplest things are often the most spiritual things of all, 2CO 11:3-4.

JOH 15:12 this is my commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you.
JOH 15:17 this I command you, that you love one another.
1PE 2:17 honor all men; love the brotherhood, fear God, honor the king.
[Impersonal unconditional love.]

1JO 3:23 and this is His commandment, that we believe in the name of His Son Jesus Christ, and love one another, just as He commanded us.

Impersonal love excludes emotion, while personal love has great emotional function.

Impersonal love emphasizes the integrity of the subject, while personal love emphasizes the attractiveness of the object.

Impersonal love excludes carrying a grudge.

Impersonal love among believers includes respect for the imputed perfect righteousness residing in others.

Impersonal love is the relaxed mental attitude from the filling of the Holy Spirit rather than overt friendliness or gushy hypocrisy.

ROM 5:5; GAL 5:22 - both teach that the filling of the Holy Spirit produces impersonal love.

Under impersonal love the believer functions under his own standards rather than being influenced by flattery, attraction, attention, or reciprocation.

Not only does the impersonal love of the Royal Family honor code exclude mental attitude sins and verbal sins, but it demands toleration, respect for privacy, and avoidance of distracting anyone from doctrine.


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Thursday, September 22, 2005


JOH 15:13 “Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends.”
PRO 17:17 A friend loves at all times, And as a brother is born for times of adversity.
1JO 3:16 We know love by this, that He laid down His life for us; and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.

Hermeneutics is the science and methodology of interpreting the Scriptures.

The first mention principle is that principle by which God indicates in the first mention of a subject, the truth with which that subject stands connected in the mind of God.

Newton said, “I find in Scripture this principle of interpretation, which I believe, if conscientiously adopted, will serve as an unfailing guide to what was in the mind of God.”

Dr. A. T. Pierson - “This is a law we have long since noted, and have never yet found it to fail. The first occurrence of a word, expression, or utterance, is the key to its subsequent meaning, or it will be a guide to ascertaining the essential truth connected with it.”

“13” in Scripture is used in connection with rebellion. All through Scripture, 13 is a number that has in it the note of rebellion against God. It foreshadows apostasy.

There is the subtlety of Satan, GEN 3:1.
Expect subtlety every time you meet him, 2CO 11:3.

There is the business of Satan indicated in the first words recorded,
“Indeed, has God said, ‘You shall not eat from any tree of the garden’?”

The first words recorded of our Lord -
LUK 2:49 “Did you not know that I had to be about my Father’s business?”
HEB 10:7 “Behold, I have come to do Thy will, O God.”

The same thing can be said about the first mention of Faith, Holiness, Spirit of God, the Son of Man, the Day of the Lord, the city of Jerusalem, Babylon, etc.

“To man, friendship is indispensable and to that one who has no need and feels no need for it, he must be either much above the human nature or much below it.”

“Take a ladder,” was Constantine’s advice to such a one, “and climb up to heaven by thyself.”

1CO 1:12 Now I mean this, that each one of you is saying, “I am of Paul,” and “I of Apollos,” and “I of Cephas,” and “I of Christ.”
1CO 16:13 Be on the alert, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.

EPH 6:18 With all prayer and petition pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be on the alert with all perseverance and petition for all the saints,
1PE 5:8 Be of sober {spirit,} be on the alert. Your adversary, the devil, prowls about like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.

This principle also rebukes the religious solitaire, that isolated being who belongs to no Church, because no Church is perfect enough for him or her.
1CO 1:12 Now I mean this, that each one of you is saying, “I am of Paul,” and “I of Apollos,” and “I of Cephas,” and “I of Christ.”

But our self-confidence is our stumbling block.

He wears down our noble determination through the frustrations of life and He squeezes out of us every piece of our self-confidence by disappointment and defeat.

He allows our goals and dreams to fall apart or sink in the swamp of human power and strength.

When “can-do” can’t, He shows us that He can, and therefore we can.
(“I can’t” then becomes blasphemy.)

JOB 23:14 For He performs what is appointed for me, And many such decrees are with Him.
1TH 5:24 Faithful is He who calls you, and He also will bring it to pass.

The demands that have been placed on us are now demands on Him.
PHI 4:13 I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.

To persuade ourselves that we are something when we are nothing is terrible loss; to confess that we are nothing is to lay the foundation of being something.
GAL 6:3 For if anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself.

We move through the day in our distracted way, assuming that our compulsions and motivations are mandates from God.

Paul seemed to know exactly what he was doing and believed that what he was doing was thoroughly worthwhile.
He was with people and he taught them.

Paul was with others, befriending, socializing, getting to know them, entering into their lives.

He reminds us of TLJC, Emmanuel, “God with us,” who spent a seemingly inordinate amount of time eating, fishing, strolling by the sea, chatting, going to parties, being neighborly.

A friend is merely someone we befriend.
The way to make a friend is to be one.
PRO 18:24 “A man that desires friends must show himself friendly.”

The other element in Paul’s work was impartation: “I have not hesitated to preach anything that would be helpful to you but have taught you publicly and from house to house,” verse 20.

Friendship entails telling another what we ourselves have come to know about God-nothing more and nothing less.

2CO 5:16 Therefore from now on we recognize no man according to the flesh; even though we have known Christ according to the flesh, yet now we know Him thus no longer.

Like Jonathan, who went to David at Horesh and “helped him find strength in God,” 1SA 23:16, a real friend is one who leaves another with a word that strengthens his grip on God.

The simplest things are often the most spiritual things of all, 2CO 11:3-4.

WHAT IT MEANS TO BE INITIATED INTO THE SECRET OF THE MYSTERY, PART 92. "HE MUST INCREASE, BUT I MUST DECREASE." 1JO 3:23; ROM 12:17-21; LUK 14:8-11; JOH 3:30; 2CO 8:9; 2CO 1:3-6; 2TH 2:15-17; MAR 10:17-31



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What it means to be initiated into the secret of the mystery. Part 92. "He must increase, but I must decrease.".

Friday, September 23, 2005


1. Impersonal love emphasizes the subject while personal love emphasizes the object.
2. Impersonal love demands we operate on our own norms and standards.

3. Impersonal love is a command in which all members of the human race in your periphery are the objects.
JOH 15:12 “This is my commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you.”
JOH 15:17 “This I command you, that you love one another.”
1PE 2:17 honor all men; love the brotherhood, fear God, honor the king. [Impersonal unconditional love.]

4. Impersonal love excludes emotion, while personal love has great emotional function.
5. Impersonal love emphasizes the integrity of the subject, while personal love emphasizes the attractiveness of the object.
6. Impersonal love excludes carrying a grudge.

Impersonal love never mandates the believer to stoop to the level of vindication, implacability, hatred, arrogance, or bitterness toward other believers.

Impersonal love means we have been benefited by grace, therefore we function by grace.

Retaliation interferes with the justice of God punishing others.
Retaliation lowers the believer to the level of his antagonist.

Impersonal love = we never stoop to the level of evil, or are overcome by evil.

7. Impersonal love among believers includes respect for the imputed perfect righteousness residing in others.
8. Impersonal love is the relaxed mental attitude from the filling of the Holy Spirit rather than overt friendliness or gushy hypocrisy.

ROM 5:5; GAL 5:22 - both teach that the filling of the Holy Spirit produces impersonal love.

9. Under impersonal love the believer functions under his own standards rather than being influenced by flattery, attraction, attention, or reciprocation.
10. Not only does impersonal love exclude mental attitude sins and verbal sins, but it demands toleration, respect for privacy, and avoidance of distracting anyone from doctrine.

PRO 13:10 Through presumption comes nothing but strife, But with those who receive counsel is wisdom.

Humility means being led downward.
It means being content when others are elevated above us and letting others advance even at our own expense.

It means accepting every humiliation and looking upon every person who demeans us as a means of grace to humble us.

JOH 3:30 “He must increase, but I must decrease.”

In humbling yourself you are imitating and using the same means that TLJC used.

2CO 8:9 For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though He was rich, yet for your sake He became poor, that you through His poverty might become rich.

He was “meek and humble in heart” - not the least bit concerned about protecting His dignity or position.

Compassion for others comes from being humbled and grows through our own suffering.

2CO 1:3-4 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort; who comforts us in all our affliction so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.
2CO 1:6 But if we are afflicted, it is for your comfort and deliverance; or if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which is effective in the patient enduring of the same sufferings which we also suffer;

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What it means to be initiated into the secret of the mystery. Part 93. When earthly comforts fail, God gives "eternal encouragement.".

Sunday, September 25, 2005


ACT 20:28 “Be on guard for yourselves and for all the flock, among which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers, to shepherd the church of God which He purchased with His own blood.”

PSA 65:3 Iniquities prevail against me; As for our transgressions, Thou dost forgive them.
ISA 43:25 “I, even I, am the one who wipes out your transgressions for My own sake; And I will not remember your sins.”
JER 33:8 “And I will cleanse them from all their iniquity by which they have sinned against Me, and I will pardon all their iniquities by which they have sinned against Me, and by which they have transgressed against Me.”

MIC 7:18-19 who is a God like thee, who pardons iniquity and passes over the rebellious act of the remnant of His possession? Yes you will cast all their sins into the depths of the sea.
PSA 103:12 As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us.
ISA 38:17c For You have cast all their sins behind their back.
JER 31:34c “For I will forgive their iniquity, and their sin I will remember no more.”

PSA 103:10 He has not dealt with us according to our sins, nor rewarded us according to our iniquities.
PSA 65:3b As far our transgressions Thou dost forgive them.
PSA 85:2 You did forgive the iniquity of Your people; you did cover “All” their sin.
EZE 16:63 “I will forgive you for ALL that you have done”

PSA 32:5 I acknowledged my sin to Thee.
PSA 38:18 For I confess my iniquity (sin).
JER 3:13 ONLY acknowledge your iniquity.
PRO 28:13 He who confesses and forsakes them (sins) will find compassion.

DAN 9:20 Confessing my sin.
MAT 3:6 and they were being baptized by him in the Jordan River, as they confessed their sins.
JAM 5:16 Therefore, confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another, so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much.

“Keep watch over yourselves and all the flock.”
“Above all else, guard your heart,” PRO 4:23.

JOH 3:30 “He must increase, but I must decrease.”
In humbling yourself you are imitating and using the same means that TLJC used.

2CO 8:9 For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though He was rich, yet for your sake He became poor, that you through His poverty might become rich.

He was “meek and humble in heart” - not the least bit concerned about protecting His dignity or position.

Compassion for others comes from being humbled and grows through our own suffering.

It is doubtful that God can use anyone greatly until they have been hurt deeply.

When earthly comforts fail us, He gives “eternal encouragement.”

Pain moves us closer to God and we gain His perspective on our broken dreams; we get His comfort -
“By His wounds we are healed,” ISA 53:5.

We are made more human and humane, more kind and empathetic.
By our wounds others are healed.

It is the fruit of intimacy with the God who cares for us, 1PE 5:7.

1JO 4:19 We love, because He first loved us.

Murphy’s Law - “Things will get worse before they get better.”

“Sorrow upon sorrow” is the lonely, invisible burden of every worker, and sometimes the hardest tests are further along.

Suffering happens because there are things to be done in our character that can only be accomplished through strenuous effort.

HEB 5:8 Although He was a Son, He learned obedience from the things which He suffered.
PHI 1:29 Because to you it has been graciously given with reference concerning Christ, not only to believe in Him, but also to suffer on behalf of Him,

PSA 126:6 He who goes to and fro weeping, carrying {his} bag of seed, Shall indeed come again with a shout of joy, bringing his sheaves {with him}.
PSA 126:6 So those who went off with heavy hearts will come home laughing, with armloads of blessing.

We are inclined to concentrate on the ordeals we go through, but God chooses to look forward and anticipate its effect.

By disappointment, grief, tears, and even by our sin, God deals with our unworthiness in His mysterious love, breaking it down and refining it, making us wiser, more willing to let go of what we want, more sensitive, less talkative.

PSA 66:10 For Thou hast tried us, O God; Thou hast refined us as silver is refined.
PRO 17:3 The refining pot is for silver and the furnace for gold, But the Lord tests hearts.
ISA 48:10 Behold, I have refined you, but not as silver; I have tested you in the furnace of affliction.

ZEC 13:9 And I will bring the third part through the fire, Refine them as silver is refined, And test them as gold is tested. They will call on My name, And I will answer them; I will say, “They are My people,” And they will say, “The Lord is my God.”

He is indeed the “Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God,” 2CO 1:3.

HOS 5:15 I will go away {and} return to My place Until they acknowledge their guilt and seek My face; In their affliction they will earnestly seek Me.

Suffering kills us - shatters the illusion that we are alive apart from God - and pushes us closer to Him.

“We... are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that His life may be revealed in our mortal body. So then, death is at work in us, but life is at work in you,” 2CO 4:11-12.

Ours is to submit to the process and the work that must be done.

Even Jesus was matured in His ministry through pain - “In bringing many sons into glory, it was fitting that God... should make the author of their salvation perfect through suffering,” HEB 2:10.

To resist the pain, then, is to miss the purpose of it; we must not feel sorry for ourselves. Self-pity is deadly and demonic.

As He promised, with such fine irony, even though “they will put some of you to death... not a hair of your head will perish,” LUK 21:16,18.

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What it means to be initiated into the secret of the mystery. Part 94. The doctrine of jealousy.

Wednesday, September 28, 2005


1. Jealousy = a sin, an emotion, a state of anxiety or a trait.
2. Jealousy is older than the human race because jealousy existed in eternity past when Lucifer, the star of the morning, son of the dawn, became jealous of God.
3. The first case of jealousy in the human race surfaced when Cain became jealous of his brother Abel,
GEN 4:4-5. This motivated Cain to murder his brother, GEN 4:8.

1JO 3:15 Everyone who hates his fellow believer is a murderer;

Scripture describes jealousy as cruel as the grave, SOS 8:6.

PRO 6:34 For jealousy enrages a man, And he will not spare in the day of vengeance.
PRO 27:4 Wrath is fierce and anger is a flood, But who can stand before jealousy?

Point 1. Definition.
a. Jealousy is a mental attitude sin which demands exclusive devotion and is intolerant of competition.
b. Jealousy is discontentment with the blessings, successes, or status symbols of other people.
c. Jealousy is resentment of the attractiveness or approbation that a person receives.

The jealousy of the authority of Joseph motivated his brothers to sell him into slavery, GEN 37:11, ACT 7:9.

d. Jealousy is total selfishness and is incapable of true love.
e. Jealousy is a possessiveness which suppresses the volition of another person; jealousy is tyranny.
f. Jealousy is also fear.

GEN 30:1 Now when Rachel saw that she bore Jacob no children, she became jealous of her sister; and she said to Jacob, “Give me children, or else I die.”

It was called in England the “Morbidly Jealous Murderer.”
“Morbid jealousy” accounted for 12% of insane male murderers incarcerated at Broadmoor in England.

The crime was most frequently committed by beating to death with a club or strangulation. Most morbidly jealous murderers are male. Most victims are wives or mistresses. On the average these murderers had been married 10 years and had been delusional for at least half that time.

g. Jealousy is anti-freedom, and does not permit people to love you from their own volition.

Jealousy is a violation of the Royal Family honor code -
ROM 13:13 Let us behave properly as in the day, not in strife and jealousy.

h. Jealousy is an emotional sin, as well as a part of arrogance.
i. Jealousy is mood arrogance troubled by suspicion that a person’s love has been diverted to a rival.
j. Jealousy is inordinate competition in love, in business, in social life, in athletics, in professional life, and in the spiritual life.

Arrogance toward self, subjective arrogance.
Possessiveness of others, objective arrogance.

Point 2. For the believer rejection of Bible doctrine produces envy and jealousy, 1TI 6:3-4.

Jealousy is discontent with the blessings, successes, or status symbols of other people.

MAR 15:10 For He [TLJC] was aware that the chief priests had delivered Him over to the Romans because of jealousy.

WHAT IT MEANS TO BE INITIATED INTO THE SECRET OF THE MYSTERY, PART 95. THE DOCTRINE OF JEALOUSY. PART 2. ACT 13:44-45; 17:2-5; JAM 3:14-16; PRO 27:3-4; 1CO 3:3; 13:4; SOS 8:6-7



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What it means to be initiated into the secret of the mystery. Part 95. The doctrine of jealousy. Part 2.

Thursday, September 29, 2005


Arrogance toward self, subjective arrogance.
Possessiveness of others, objective arrogance.

Point 2. For the believer rejection of Bible doctrine produces envy and jealousy, 1TI 6:3-4.

Jealousy is discontent with the blessings, successes, or status symbols of other people.

MAR 15:10 For He [TLJC] was aware that the chief priests had delivered Him over to the Romans because of jealousy.

Point 3. Jealousy is a self-destructive mental attitude and a system of thinking from the Cosmos.

Disorder - noun - akatastasia = instability, disorder, commotion, and confusion.

Point 4. Jealousy like many of the mental attitude sins can produce physical sickness as well as mental disorder.

PRO 14:30 A tranquil heart is life to the body, But jealousy is rottenness to the bones.
JOB 5:2 For jealousy slays the foolish man and anger kills the stupid.

Point 5. Jealousy is the worst of all the mental attitude sins because it is the strongest mental attitude sin.

Jealousy belongs to several categories of personal sinning:
The arrogance complex of sins.
The emotional complex of sins.

Since jealousy is defined as unpleasant fear, suspicion, resentment from mistrust of another, it is obvious that jealousy, as a sin, is part of the arrogance complex of sins and the emotional complex of sins.

Bitterness, vindictiveness, implacability, inordinate ambition and competition, revenge motivation, or verbal sins.

a. The hysterical category of sins which includes fear - fear of rivalry, fear of losing someone’s affection, fear of unfaithfulness in some form - worry, anxiety, panic, consternation, irrationality, dissociation.

b. The hatred category - uncontrollable anger, implacable hatred, bitter resentment, implacable vindictiveness, loathing, animosity, tantrums, violence, murder.

c. The self-centered category which includes self-pity, emotional irrationality, certain expressions of dissatisfaction including gossip, slander, maligning, and other forms of vilification.

WHAT IT MEANS TO BE INITIATED INTO THE SECRET OF THE MYSTERY, PART 96. THE DOCTRINE OF JEALOUSY. PART 3. NUM 5:11-31; SOS 8:6-7; PHI 1:15-18; PRO 24:17-18; GEN 37; 1SA 18:6-11; PSA 106:13-17



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What it means to be initiated into the secret of the mystery. Part 96. The doctrine of jealousy. Part 3.

Friday, September 30, 2005


Point 1. Definition.
a. Jealousy is a mental attitude sin which demands exclusive devotion and is intolerant of competition.
b. Jealousy is discontentment with the blessings, successes, or status symbols of other people.

c. Jealousy is resentment of the attractiveness or approbation that a person receives.
d. Jealousy is total selfishness and is incapable of true love.
e. Jealousy is a possessiveness which suppresses the volition of another person; jealousy is tyranny.

f. Jealousy is also fear.
g. Jealousy is anti-freedom, and does not permit people to love you from their own volition.
The only love that is worthwhile is when someone gives it to you freely.

h. Jealousy is an emotional sin, as well as a part of arrogance.
i. Jealousy is mood arrogance troubled by suspicion that a person’s love has been diverted to a rival.
j. Jealousy is inordinate competition in love, in business, in social life, in athletics, in professional life, and in the spiritual life.

Point 2. For the believer rejection of Bible doctrine produces envy and jealousy, 1TI 6:3-4.

Point 3. Jealousy is a self-destructive mental attitude and a system of thinking from the Cosmic system, JAM 3:14-15.
Point 4. Jealousy like many of the mental attitude sins can produce physical sickness as well as mental disorder,PRO 14:30, JOB 5:2.
Point 5. Jealousy is the worst of all the mental attitude sins because it is the strongest of the mental attitude sins, PRO 27:3-4.

PRO 27:3 A stone is heavy and the sand weighty, But the provocation of a fool is heavier than both of them.
PRO 27:4 Wrath is fierce and anger is a flood, But who can stand before jealousy?

Point 6. So great was the sin of jealousy in Israel that a special offering was made for it, NUM 5:11-31.

This was part of an adultery trial, also known as the ordeal of jealousy.
If a man accused his wife of adultery but had no proof of her guilt, the Law provided a ritual to determine whether she was innocent or guilty, NUM 5:11-31.

If she swore her innocence, the woman was forced to drink a potion made of holy water mixed with dust from the floor of the tabernacle, and the priest burned the offering, made of barley meal, on the altar.

Jealousy actually split the nation Israel, ISA 11:13.

Point 7. Jealousy is the basis for the destruction of category two love (personal love of a member of the opposite sex), SOS 8:6-7.

“Strong as death” indicates that the man’s love for the woman and her response to that love serves as a fortification and protection for the woman’s soul and body.
Flashes = her responses to her right man are hot.
The flame is from the Lord not the flesh.

“Many waters” = pressures, disasters, difficulties, etc.
“Rivers” = the most horrible disasters of life which cannot destroy it.

Keil and Delitzsch - this statement was a direct putdown to Solomon’s many gifts and his riches to this woman.

Pressures, adversities, difficulties, and the most horrible disasters cannot destroy true love but jealousy can.

Point 8. Jealousy is related to the suppression of pride, which is part of a trigger mechanism producing both false motivation and discord, PHI 1:15.

Pettiness is the little sister of jealousy; they are closely related.

Point 9. Jealousy is related to the three categories of love.

a. Jealousy, as an anthropopathism, is legitimate only by God, who demands all your attention and concentration when you reach maturity.
An anthropopathism ascribes to God a human characteristic which God does not actually possess, but is used to reveal and explain God’s policy toward mankind in terms of human frame of reference by the use of language of accommodation.

b. In category two love, toward a member of the opposite sex, the jealous person can be so possessive that they smother the other person’s love and destroy it.
c. In category three love toward friends, the jealous person wants you to be friends only with them.

Point 10. Jealous people rejoice in the misery or fall of others.

A person who is jealous or envious of others feels painful and resentful at their betterment, and feels happy only when some miseries take place in the lives of others.

GAL 6:3 For if anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself.

Jealous people look for faults in others and never see their good qualities, and they think themselves faultless.

A sanitary inspector spends his time inspecting filth.

Jealousy is like a cancer, it grows and grows and grows until eventually it turns into outright hatred.

Men are more vulnerable to jealousy than women in certain areas, particularly in their desire for power, position, and title.

We live in a performance oriented world where we are taught to compete.

The curse that you have prepared for another will come upon you, and the blessing that you have prepared for yourself will be given to them.

EZE 35:11 “I will deal with you according to your anger and according to your envy which you showed because of your hatred against them”